Eduction

lesson for today:

It's not wise to speak your mind. It is better to hold back thoughts. You'll find out that your frankness will be used against you and hurt you. It does not pay to speak your mind.
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it is difficult to change when you've been used to saying things all openly, but bear in mind, that the person you thought would see it that way might just change his mind. Your ways, especially negative ones, will be used against you and assumptions about you will be made based on that. People have an eye for the bad, sometimes even, the person you care most.

Some things that you hope is just a passing, sticks on forever, even when they have said that it is over and done with.